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2003-10-10--9:59 a.m.
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the last day before the big vacation and i am so relaxed. i have a few things done, a few more to do, and a few that just aren't going to get done and that is okay.

we spend lastnight at the church photocopying ward bulletins and then folding them. it usually takes about an hour to get them all run off and then folded nicely. W. played in the library so quietly and the baby was suppose to sleep in his carseat, but he didn't so took turns making goofy faces so that he would forget we had him strapped down like an astronaut in prelaunch sequence.

so i wanted to run something by you all, N. has this woman at work who for a while when we first moved here was VERY sweet to him. asked him specifically for help on projects. (he is in application distribution, she is in desktop support I/T) wanted to tag along with his group for lunch, blah blah. anyway, he is generally kind to her as he is to all her co-workers, then she starts dating one of the men in N.'s group. they are seeing each other pretty seriously now and since then (the last 8 months or so) this woman has turned into the most horrible creature. she says things when she comes over to talk to her BF like, "hey loser". and when N. said he wouldn't watch a movie because there was reported to be a child abuse scene in it and he just couldn't stand to see that she said, "you are such a baby with no grip on reality" anyhoo to get to my point she said to him yesterday, " do you want me to bring you a hole punch for your belt tomorrow" no N. has put on a few pounds since we have been married (9 years) and he probably is carrying around 10 extra pounds but that is ALL! i am sorry, but even if he was.. is this not out of line?!? i so feel the need to call her up and say really hateful things. on our way to the church lastnight N. was talking about it and i told him how mad i was. i said, " i feel like my kid has been pushed down at the bus stop" and W. chimed in from the back seat and said, "and run over by the bus" - well out of the mouths of babes indeed... and run over by the bus. am i wrong to be so upset about his woman's behavior? i so wish i would have cut her right to her face at the company zoo party. when she said "nice to meet you" i so should have said, "i wish i could say the same" okay, i need to take my own peptalk that i gave N. to heart this morning and let it go. maybe i would be less angry had N. been a little more angry, but he was just so hurt that i have to be the one to get angry. maybe the boys and i will go toilet paper her house or throw eggs on her car.. oh oh, maybe i'll call my brother and he'll fly up and we'll go stick her horn! YEAH! that is what we'll do. and we'll say that she is a poo poo caca!